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View Poll Results: Must you trust to love?
Of Course 8 66.67%
Not necessarily 2 16.67%
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Old 05-25-2003   #1
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In Love We Trust

They say that in order to love someone, you must trust them... is this true?
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Old 05-27-2003   #2
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Depends on what it is. When you say you love someone you mostly have to be willing to die for them in my opinion. If you say I love you to the wrong person then it can Backfire. You do have to trust the person you love though. If you dont trust the person the person can turn out to be a person who you thought they wouldnt be
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Old 05-27-2003   #3
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ah love, girls make love with their hearts, guys do it with they're dongs. Every guy is the same on the inside. You can break any guy down, if if you think their "different that everyone else" and everyone is looking for the same thing. SEX. Unfortually that is the only thing that most guys want. If you find one that into talking and respects you, he's a keeper.
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Old 05-28-2003   #4
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i think it really has to do with who the person is and in what capacity you have a relationship with them.
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Old 05-29-2003   #5
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Love is a grossly overused word. And (generally) its the woman to whom the words are more significant. Men either shy away from the word or say it2shut the woman up. Trust is important yes. But then again, when u find someone attractive it's easy to assume the rest of the world will too...I trust my man but not the hoardes of cheap slappers after his dick/personality/money!!!
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That's how I feel about my fiance... but she just thinks I'm being stupid... you should see her though... she gorgeous!
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I personally don't think you can love somebody if you don't trust them. I trust my wife completely, I've got better things to worry about than what she's up to. If I didn't trust her I'd have an ulcer and be divorced.

Love (to me anyway)

5% physical attraction
20% someone you can talk to/get along with
30% trust/comitment
10% can make you laugh/cheer you up
35% unconditional acceptance of who you are for better or for worse.
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Incubus - You have an excellent outlook and very good point.

I think all people in relationships start out by having a certain amount of trust for the other person (what excuse would we have in the beginning not to trust someone?)

If that other person (or us) does something to break that trust, it's really hard to get it back.

There are a lot of that have been hurt many times by other people that it is hard for them to trust anybody. We ALL (myself included) need to remember that the past is just that. The past. Once we can get over the person that put us through so much pain, we can move on and start fresh with a new person...

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i so totally agree with you, V. and you, too Incubus. Love is so about trust...

I love my fiancee, and the way I know...I trust him. I mean, he's like a thousand miles away....literally, and he goes to parties and stuff and everything or whatever, and I don't worry. At first I would be a little paranoid, but then I was like, WTF? Why am I acting this way? He's never broken my trust to begin with...so it's all good...

Unfortunately he's a little on the paraniod part. He thinks i'm a sexy beast whom a lot of guys are after, I think i'm pretty plain. I belive I'm not ugly, but I'm not drop dead gorgeous either. I've been one of the guys forever and a year, so most of my friends and the ppl I hang w/ are guys, so he tries not to be jealous. poor thing...he doesn't realize sometimes that the only guy i ever think about is him...
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