Relationship Fail

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

Again.

Jenn and tonic · 05-19-2010

I'm sorry.

Christian · 05-19-2010

Poor you.

What happened?

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

I just seem to gravitate towards/attract toxic people, apparently.

Savage_Nature · 05-19-2010

I hear you, I dated a girl for 8 months. She had a kid, I loved the kid. She needed some work. It's a shame really.

Chin up.

psychoDiablo · 05-19-2010

Quote:

Originally Said by Princess Jasmine

Again.

doh!

GoddessDivine · 05-19-2010

that sucks. just try to be positive and do what is right for you. you should come visit charleston and go to the beach though

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

the car i got is a piece of shit and my sister is driving it since my license is revoked. fml

plus i don't want to risk being molested by jason. FEET FEET FEET

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

i've never felt so powerless and controlled by anyone in my life.

my mom is coming to get me tomorrow morning but it just doesn't seem soon enough.

Psychosis · 05-19-2010

im sorry jas...hell I know how hard it is...the way to look at is..well..there simply IS more fish in the sea so to speak..

if it all went south this time well hell you can always pick yourself up, dust yourself down, have a cry an whatnot air out all your annoyance an pain...an well move on..

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

I don't care about other fucking fish right now.

I care about the fact that even though I'm leaving tomorrow, he's still trying to take anything he can from me, which now is a prepaid cell phone he BOUGHT me that's in MY name.

I'm pissed that I've been controlled for so long and haven't even been realizing it.

I have no car, no phone now, no money, no job, no license, no place to stay. My mom will probably let me stay with her a few nights then expect me to pull something out of my ass as far as a job and housing.

I'm just so frustrated because I'm at the lowest point I've been in my entire life since I moved out almost 5 years ago.

fml

GoddessDivine · 05-19-2010

i wish i could get you over here just for some R&R. I know how bad it sucks having to be in the same house with someone who is a complete douche to you. One night seems like 10 years. People get really petty when things end and try to fuck you over as much as they can. I want to tell you though they do that to try and make themselves feel better because they are upset. Especially if he controlled you to any degree. He is trying to enforce his control one last time

It will be all over soon, don't worry. Maybe this is the best for you in the long run. How long till you get your DL back?

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

i have to pay off fines for FTA on some tickets. so i have to get a job.

Psychosis · 05-19-2010

Quote:

Originally Said by Princess Jasmine

I don't care about other fucking fish right now.

I care about the fact that even though I'm leaving tomorrow, he's still trying to take anything he can from me, which now is a prepaid cell phone he BOUGHT me that's in MY name.

I'm pissed that I've been controlled for so long and haven't even been realizing it.

I have no car, no phone now, no money, no job, no license, no place to stay. My mom will probably let me stay with her a few nights then expect me to pull something out of my ass as far as a job and housing.

I'm just so frustrated because I'm at the lowest point I've been in my entire life since I moved out almost 5 years ago.

fml

trust me..me an you have ALOT in common right now...more so than you think...im about to lose my place in the divorce...I CANT stay with family through many various reasons....cant get a job right now as im unskilled an EVERYTHING wants skilled workers..im living on VERY VERY little money..

ontop of that..I have MASSIVE debts that stop me getting private housing as most if not all do credit checks..so im fucked there AND i've been to the doctors more times lately than I want to...and im on a cocktail of medication for numerious different things..all of which could of been avoided if I had never met my soon to be ex wife..

oh an to add insult to injury...my ex wants this to be an amicable divorce..it said so in the letter from her solicitor...BUT every text she has sent to her friends have been saying things like "im gonna take him for everything his got the cunt"...AND the stupid thing that she said shes getting restraining orders out for her, her bf, my son AND get this...all her fucking friends....which means...IF thats true I can hardly walk around my city cos thanks to me she knows ALOT of people...oh yea...she gets all my friends in the divorce too...gotta love that...

so yea jas, I know EXACTLY how you feel....and well....fuck it..it has to get better...when your at your lowest point theres only up aint there?...you just cant see it yet...shit I cant even see it yet but I know it MUST be there sometime

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

it can get worse if:

i got to jail before i pay off my fines
if i don't get into school
if my mom doesn't let me stay with her until i get back on my feet/back in school and i get in more debt

why the hell is she being that way towards you?

Psychosis · 05-19-2010

cos shes vindictive an evil..simple as..

and yea I know what you mean...my depression an anxiety could get worse, my meds could spiral worse outa control, I could start drinking again...hell if that happens im not far off O'ding yet again for the second time in 6 months..

hai Jay · 05-19-2010

i don't have time to sit around and be sad, nor do i have money to go do drugs and get wasted.

i gotta make shit happen ASAP. and if i don't-which i am-my mom will be on my ass.

psychoDiablo · 05-19-2010

poor jaws.
drugs or getting wasted won't solve anything.

making shit happen means sitting on the toilet.

you need to take a shower, comb your hair, dress in a nice blouse, wear black pants & some good shoes (not flipflops) and get out there and demand some work. it's not like you're an idiot and can't do mediocre work. talk to the mexicans.

"senor.. disculpe, senor. usted tiene trabajo? (use usted form, it's a sign of respect.) necesito trabajo."

in the meantime, you shouldn't be on here telling us about your Alabummer life

hai Jay · 05-20-2010

I don't plan on getting wasted, and I do plan on hitting the pavement asap.

GoddessDivine · 05-20-2010

yeah Jasmine! You have skills, I mean you have experience working with people and you have had a few jobs. Getting a job should be easy for you. Everything will fall into place soon, just be positive. So when are you leaving that guy's place then? Only a few more hours left right?

05-19-2010	#1
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Relationship Fail Again. __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#2
Jenn and tonic "maaaaagic!" Join Date: Jul 2003 Age: 34 Posts: 5,965 Rep Power: 119	Re: Relationship Fail I'm sorry. __________________ When all government, in little as in great things, shall be drawn to Washington as the Center of all power, it will render powerless the checks provided of one government on another and will become as venal and oppressive as the government from which we separated. – Thomas Jefferson

05-19-2010	#3
Christian Super Moderator Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 35 Posts: 2,017 Rep Power: 92	Re: Relationship Fail Poor you. What happened? __________________ - hug a tree -

05-19-2010	#4
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail I just seem to gravitate towards/attract toxic people, apparently. __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#5
Savage_Nature I love my brother. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Alberta {Canada} Age: 29 Posts: 3,405 Rep Power: 55	Re: Relationship Fail I hear you, I dated a girl for 8 months. She had a kid, I loved the kid. She needed some work. It's a shame really. Chin up. __________________

05-19-2010	#7
GoddessDivine I move the stars for no one. Join Date: May 2008 Location: Charleston, SC Age: 36 Posts: 3,871 Rep Power: 90	Re: Relationship Fail that sucks. just try to be positive and do what is right for you. you should come visit charleston and go to the beach though __________________ ...the light of her eyes fell on him from afar and pierced his heart.-Tolkien I believe whatever doesn't kill you simply makes you... stranger.-Joker Your eyes can deceive you, do not trust them.-Obi Wan

05-19-2010	#8
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail the car i got is a piece of shit and my sister is driving it since my license is revoked. fml plus i don't want to risk being molested by jason. FEET FEET FEET __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#9
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail i've never felt so powerless and controlled by anyone in my life. my mom is coming to get me tomorrow morning but it just doesn't seem soon enough. __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#10
Psychosis Watch This Space Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Age: 34 Posts: 757 Rep Power: 28	Re: Relationship Fail im sorry jas...hell I know how hard it is...the way to look at is..well..there simply IS more fish in the sea so to speak.. if it all went south this time well hell you can always pick yourself up, dust yourself down, have a cry an whatnot air out all your annoyance an pain...an well move on.. __________________ *The two greatest trolls on the interweb*

05-19-2010	#11
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail I don't care about other fucking fish right now. I care about the fact that even though I'm leaving tomorrow, he's still trying to take anything he can from me, which now is a prepaid cell phone he BOUGHT me that's in MY name. I'm pissed that I've been controlled for so long and haven't even been realizing it. I have no car, no phone now, no money, no job, no license, no place to stay. My mom will probably let me stay with her a few nights then expect me to pull something out of my ass as far as a job and housing. I'm just so frustrated because I'm at the lowest point I've been in my entire life since I moved out almost 5 years ago. fml __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#12
GoddessDivine I move the stars for no one. Join Date: May 2008 Location: Charleston, SC Age: 36 Posts: 3,871 Rep Power: 90	Re: Relationship Fail i wish i could get you over here just for some R&R. I know how bad it sucks having to be in the same house with someone who is a complete douche to you. One night seems like 10 years. People get really petty when things end and try to fuck you over as much as they can. I want to tell you though they do that to try and make themselves feel better because they are upset. Especially if he controlled you to any degree. He is trying to enforce his control one last time It will be all over soon, don't worry. Maybe this is the best for you in the long run. How long till you get your DL back? __________________ ...the light of her eyes fell on him from afar and pierced his heart.-Tolkien I believe whatever doesn't kill you simply makes you... stranger.-Joker Your eyes can deceive you, do not trust them.-Obi Wan

05-19-2010	#13
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail i have to pay off fines for FTA on some tickets. so i have to get a job. __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#15
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail it can get worse if: i got to jail before i pay off my fines if i don't get into school if my mom doesn't let me stay with her until i get back on my feet/back in school and i get in more debt why the hell is she being that way towards you? __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#16
Psychosis Watch This Space Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Age: 34 Posts: 757 Rep Power: 28	Re: Relationship Fail cos shes vindictive an evil..simple as.. and yea I know what you mean...my depression an anxiety could get worse, my meds could spiral worse outa control, I could start drinking again...hell if that happens im not far off O'ding yet again for the second time in 6 months.. __________________ *The two greatest trolls on the interweb*

05-19-2010	#17
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail i don't have time to sit around and be sad, nor do i have money to go do drugs and get wasted. i gotta make shit happen ASAP. and if i don't-which i am-my mom will be on my ass. __________________ Dare to dream.

05-19-2010	#18
psychoDiablo Thx for the memories Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 15,971 Rep Power: 199	Re: Relationship Fail poor jaws. drugs or getting wasted won't solve anything. making shit happen means sitting on the toilet. you need to take a shower, comb your hair, dress in a nice blouse, wear black pants & some good shoes (not flipflops) and get out there and demand some work. it's not like you're an idiot and can't do mediocre work. talk to the mexicans. "senor.. disculpe, senor. usted tiene trabajo? (use usted form, it's a sign of respect.) necesito trabajo." in the meantime, you shouldn't be on here telling us about your Alabummer life __________________ I wouldn't say I'm psycho only because I'm able to handle it. Now learn patience To chill is to be chillin. Chillin is cooperating with your surroundings, unknowing'st of what everything is capable of; and all the while, as it happens and after, to accept without any thought of good or bad, but mainly, just enjoying rather deeply, the moment you had to sit and think. (Not thinking.) \|-Mr.MCR-\| Will you write Will you love Will you enjoy Life when I am gone? You will. by Angelina "I have lived life as horrible as it was, and as beautiful as it has become."

05-20-2010	#19
hai Jay Time for breakfast!!! Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 9,098 Rep Power: 105	Re: Relationship Fail I don't plan on getting wasted, and I do plan on hitting the pavement asap. __________________ Dare to dream.

05-20-2010	#20
GoddessDivine I move the stars for no one. Join Date: May 2008 Location: Charleston, SC Age: 36 Posts: 3,871 Rep Power: 90	Re: Relationship Fail yeah Jasmine! You have skills, I mean you have experience working with people and you have had a few jobs. Getting a job should be easy for you. Everything will fall into place soon, just be positive. So when are you leaving that guy's place then? Only a few more hours left right? __________________ ...the light of her eyes fell on him from afar and pierced his heart.-Tolkien I believe whatever doesn't kill you simply makes you... stranger.-Joker Your eyes can deceive you, do not trust them.-Obi Wan

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