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Old 04-23-2003   #1
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Is it bad if your girlfriend is cheating on you?

just a question.. my girlfriend says it's not bad
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Old 04-23-2003   #2
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WELL..........it's not good. I think you've been spending too much time in the water, son... time to get out.
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Old 04-23-2003   #3
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so like what should i do?
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Old 04-25-2003   #4
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give her an ultimatum, tell her you cant trust her anymore, and without that you feel your relationship is meaningless.

it should be possible to work around it, ive forgiven my girlfriend for cheating on me, thou im still after the bloke she did it with (see sig). If your relationship is strong enough then you can save it, but it will be painful.
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Yeah, I'm not seeing any benefits to someone cheating on you. In what world is that okay?
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it would be easier for you if you dumped her broke ass now than when she does it again
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I have to agree w/ poopy. Dump her.
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Old 04-26-2003   #8
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i think that it is totally acceptable for your girlfriend to cheat on you. She's breaking your trust, she's saying your not good enough and it's probably with a complete dick. What's wrong with that?
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Old 04-26-2003   #9
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Why do you think think its called CHEATING for christs sake?
If it was called playing by the rules then you may have a point.
What was her reason for saying it was ok?
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If she's cheating don't bother saving it. It just means that she's bored and needs some new toy to play with. I know that's harsh, but you'd be better off with a new girl...
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Yeah, one who doesn't think that cheatings OK, cause it's one of the worst things she can do to you. Doesn't it hurt you and doesn't that tell you that it's wrong? Do you think it's wrong? Never take someone else's opinion over your good judgement.
Libra's right, she's probably got someone else. Or maybe more guys. Sorry if i sound mean, i'm just felling cynical and trying to be honest.
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yea well i followed the adive generously given out by my fellow people and she wants me back.. said i was the perfect boyfriend or some crap like that... i turned her down and now shes like all crying and stuff and i feel kinda bad
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It's hard to tell, how she really feels. I guess she might really love you, and wants you back, but it maybe be just that she has no where else to go. it was strong of you to turn her down
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Just go with YOUR heart.
If you feel she's truly sorry, and your possitive she made a mistake then go back with her, but remind her that she hurt you, and has got to prove herself to you (this is where you could have some fun, use to ur advantage!)!

Like i said, go with your heart man, and what ur feelings are for her.
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I've never been cheaed on but i know that if i felt enough for the person who cheated on me and they were truely sorry then i would take them back but I would let them know that they hurt me. In a fun way, for me anyway.
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If it hurts you, it's obviously bad. If it doesn't hurt you that your girlfriend is messing around with other people behind your back, you should check your pulse... But if your relationship is supposed to be that way... so be it.
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she cheated on you. she wanted someone else. you dumped her, left her, end of story.

but now she wants you back...that's actually sort of a bad thing. It'd be a better idea not to get back with her because then she might take advantage of you and cheat on you AGAIN. thus, the cycle will never break.

The best thing to do is ask yourself this: was it really worth it for her to go off with SOMEONE ELSE and have a good time while she lied to you about it? To me it's not worth taking someone back because they left you. It means they lost interest in you, and even if she's crying and moaning and bitching about how she wants you back, how do you REALLY know that's the case? there's a difference between missing someone and still feeling attached to them because you may be used to the things he/she used to do for you.

just move on with your life already. You don't need a girl who's going to run around with other guys.
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ya know, for once i think i'll have to agree with her bitchin
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HEY...it's not bitching. it's thought =P and besides he needs to figure out what he wants anyhow. I'm simply presenting the question to him XD
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it isn't healthy to stay in a relationship like that. Ask her how she would feel if you cheated on her.
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