Is it bad if your girlfriend is cheating on you?

swimmer_guy · 04-23-2003

just a question.. my girlfriend says it's not bad

jayhay0 · 04-23-2003

WELL..........it's not good. I think you've been spending too much time in the water, son... time to get out.

swimmer_guy · 04-23-2003

so like what should i do?

Dg · 04-25-2003

give her an ultimatum, tell her you cant trust her anymore, and without that you feel your relationship is meaningless.

it should be possible to work around it, ive forgiven my girlfriend for cheating on me, thou im still after the bloke she did it with (see sig). If your relationship is strong enough then you can save it, but it will be painful.

coldfeet · 04-25-2003

Yeah, I'm not seeing any benefits to someone cheating on you. In what world is that okay?

poopy · 04-25-2003

it would be easier for you if you dumped her broke ass now than when she does it again

jaser18 · 04-25-2003

I have to agree w/ poopy. Dump her.

chriister · 04-26-2003

i think that it is totally acceptable for your girlfriend to cheat on you. She's breaking your trust, she's saying your not good enough and it's probably with a complete dick. What's wrong with that?

Choreo-geographer · 04-26-2003

Why do you think think its called CHEATING for christs sake?
If it was called playing by the rules then you may have a point.
What was her reason for saying it was ok?

libra_195 · 04-26-2003

If she's cheating don't bother saving it. It just means that she's bored and needs some new toy to play with. I know that's harsh, but you'd be better off with a new girl...

Choreo-geographer · 04-26-2003

Yeah, one who doesn't think that cheatings OK, cause it's one of the worst things she can do to you. Doesn't it hurt you and doesn't that tell you that it's wrong? Do you think it's wrong? Never take someone else's opinion over your good judgement.
Libra's right, she's probably got someone else. Or maybe more guys. Sorry if i sound mean, i'm just felling cynical and trying to be honest.

swimmer_guy · 04-27-2003

yea well i followed the adive generously given out by my fellow people and she wants me back.. said i was the perfect boyfriend or some crap like that... i turned her down and now shes like all crying and stuff and i feel kinda bad

Choreo-geographer · 04-27-2003

It's hard to tell, how she really feels. I guess she might really love you, and wants you back, but it maybe be just that she has no where else to go. it was strong of you to turn her down

creamcoffee · 04-27-2003

Just go with YOUR heart.
If you feel she's truly sorry, and your possitive she made a mistake then go back with her, but remind her that she hurt you, and has got to prove herself to you (this is where you could have some fun, use to ur advantage!)!

Like i said, go with your heart man, and what ur feelings are for her.

chriister · 04-28-2003

I've never been cheaed on but i know that if i felt enough for the person who cheated on me and they were truely sorry then i would take them back but I would let them know that they hurt me. In a fun way, for me anyway.

schnooky · 05-27-2003

If it hurts you, it's obviously bad. If it doesn't hurt you that your girlfriend is messing around with other people behind your back, you should check your pulse... But if your relationship is supposed to be that way... so be it.

vhg · 05-27-2003

she cheated on you. she wanted someone else. you dumped her, left her, end of story.

but now she wants you back...that's actually sort of a bad thing. It'd be a better idea not to get back with her because then she might take advantage of you and cheat on you AGAIN. thus, the cycle will never break.

The best thing to do is ask yourself this: was it really worth it for her to go off with SOMEONE ELSE and have a good time while she lied to you about it? To me it's not worth taking someone back because they left you. It means they lost interest in you, and even if she's crying and moaning and bitching about how she wants you back, how do you REALLY know that's the case? there's a difference between missing someone and still feeling attached to them because you may be used to the things he/she used to do for you.

just move on with your life already. You don't need a girl who's going to run around with other guys.

boreduroysuit · 05-27-2003

ya know, for once i think i'll have to agree with her bitchin

vhg · 05-27-2003

HEY...it's not bitching. it's thought =P and besides he needs to figure out what he wants anyhow. I'm simply presenting the question to him XD

raven_rose2911 · 05-28-2003

it isn't healthy to stay in a relationship like that. Ask her how she would feel if you cheated on her.

04-23-2003	#1
swimmer_guy Trainee Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 40 Posts: 42 Rep Power: 37	Is it bad if your girlfriend is cheating on you? just a question.. my girlfriend says it's not bad

04-23-2003	#2
jayhay0 Old & Wise Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Age: 39 Posts: 905 Rep Power: 39	WELL..........it's not good. I think you've been spending too much time in the water, son... time to get out. __________________ People are more violently opposed to fur than leather because it's safer to harass rich women than motorcycle gangs. Words from the wise.

04-25-2003	#5
coldfeet Member Join Date: Nov 2001 Age: 37 Posts: 160 Rep Power: 40	Yeah, I'm not seeing any benefits to someone cheating on you. In what world is that okay? __________________ "Don't you feed me lines about some idealistic future Your heart won't heal right if you keep tearing out the sutures"

04-25-2003	#6
poopy The ?mægå Mån Join Date: Oct 2002 Age: 39 Posts: 2,800 Rep Power: 51	it would be easier for you if you dumped her broke ass now than when she does it again __________________ BEWARE: When eating snacks remember that the fruit roll-up factory feels the need to endanger our lives with a potentially suffocatingly thin transluscent plastic. I am outraged and currently on my way out the door to start a petition for a boycott of any and all fruit roll-up snacks. Please send me a message or post your name, telephone number, and address, and some one will be by to get your signature. Thank You

04-26-2003	#9
Choreo-geographer Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 37 Posts: 175 Rep Power: 37	Why do you think think its called CHEATING for christs sake? If it was called playing by the rules then you may have a point. What was her reason for saying it was ok? __________________ Lets party like it's ninety ninety.......HOLD UP, IT IS!

04-25-2003	#7
jaser18 Newbie Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 17 Rep Power: 37	I have to agree w/ poopy. Dump her.

04-26-2003	#8
chriister Needs to confirm E-mail address Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 35 Posts: 220 Rep Power: 0	i think that it is totally acceptable for your girlfriend to cheat on you. She's breaking your trust, she's saying your not good enough and it's probably with a complete dick. What's wrong with that?

04-26-2003	#10
libra_195 Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 38 Posts: 101 Rep Power: 37	If she's cheating don't bother saving it. It just means that she's bored and needs some new toy to play with. I know that's harsh, but you'd be better off with a new girl... __________________ Married and very happy let all bad things that happen in the past in the past Thank you!

04-27-2003	#12
swimmer_guy Trainee Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 40 Posts: 42 Rep Power: 37	yea well i followed the adive generously given out by my fellow people and she wants me back.. said i was the perfect boyfriend or some crap like that... i turned her down and now shes like all crying and stuff and i feel kinda bad

04-27-2003	#14
creamcoffee Newbie Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 36 Posts: 21 Rep Power: 37	Just go with YOUR heart. If you feel she's truly sorry, and your possitive she made a mistake then go back with her, but remind her that she hurt you, and has got to prove herself to you (this is where you could have some fun, use to ur advantage!)! Like i said, go with your heart man, and what ur feelings are for her. __________________ You only live once!

04-28-2003	#15
chriister Needs to confirm E-mail address Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 35 Posts: 220 Rep Power: 0	I've never been cheaed on but i know that if i felt enough for the person who cheated on me and they were truely sorry then i would take them back but I would let them know that they hurt me. In a fun way, for me anyway.

05-27-2003	#16
schnooky Newbie Member Join Date: May 2003 Age: 44 Posts: 14 Rep Power: 37	If it hurts you, it's obviously bad. If it doesn't hurt you that your girlfriend is messing around with other people behind your back, you should check your pulse... But if your relationship is supposed to be that way... so be it.

05-27-2003	#17
vhg Well Known Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Age: 38 Posts: 248 Rep Power: 37	she cheated on you. she wanted someone else. you dumped her, left her, end of story. but now she wants you back...that's actually sort of a bad thing. It'd be a better idea not to get back with her because then she might take advantage of you and cheat on you AGAIN. thus, the cycle will never break. The best thing to do is ask yourself this: was it really worth it for her to go off with SOMEONE ELSE and have a good time while she lied to you about it? To me it's not worth taking someone back because they left you. It means they lost interest in you, and even if she's crying and moaning and bitching about how she wants you back, how do you REALLY know that's the case? there's a difference between missing someone and still feeling attached to them because you may be used to the things he/she used to do for you. just move on with your life already. You don't need a girl who's going to run around with other guys. __________________ my plants are named Illidan, Kalimdor, and Durotar =D gotta love that 01000101 sex position eh? ;P

05-27-2003	#18
boreduroysuit Very Experienced Member Join Date: May 2003 Age: 39 Posts: 418 Rep Power: 37	ya know, for once i think i'll have to agree with her bitchin __________________ My cat likes to play "Hide and Go Puke"

05-28-2003	#20
raven_rose2911 Well Known Member Join Date: May 2003 Age: 39 Posts: 247 Rep Power: 37	it isn't healthy to stay in a relationship like that. Ask her how she would feel if you cheated on her. __________________ May I never forget the greatest love I ever knew...let me be brave in my attempt to piece my shattered heart back together again...what I wouldn't give to see your sweet face just one more time. Oh my dearest love how my heart aches for your tender touch. I will always love you. You will always be "MY BOO". IN MEMORY OF JACKSON BLAZE HARRIS OCTOBER 11th, 1983-OCTOBER 15th, 2004

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