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psychoDiablo 09-20-2014 03:51 AM

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How do you guys feel about your ex's? X gf or x bf, however it goes - Do u still talk to them?

It's weird if you do. So I say

Jenn and tonic 09-20-2014 12:39 PM

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I don't. Even if the breakup wasn't hateful, I usually go no contact; it makes moving on easier and less complicated.

I've just never been able to be the type of person that can recategorize someone from "boyfriend" to "friend."

Jabedin 09-20-2014 04:27 PM

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I'm like a word document without the save file function

psychoDiablo 09-21-2014 02:07 AM

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lol

ya. one of my x's hit me up after 2 years. just saying high n shit. i said hi back and she was talking to me alot. but that all died as fast as it came around. it was just recently that i deleted her ass. i was like, wtf ? she's a bitch and why we broke up. why are we talking like shits cool? We can't be friends. Weird right? ugghhh lol

Kortenie 09-21-2014 02:47 PM

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I have one as a best friend, a couple of acquaintances, and a couple others I couldn't care less what they were up to in life.

psychoDiablo 09-21-2014 04:01 PM

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Hmm, a best friend? Not sure how to get one of those.

Bamcubz 09-21-2014 08:14 PM

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No to the ex-husband, just pisses me off and reminds me why I divorsed his stupid ass in the first place.

Zanahoria_Picante 09-21-2014 11:49 PM

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I technically don't have any ex's as I've never technically had a boyfriend.

This fact does not make me sad.

Kortenie 09-22-2014 11:41 AM

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Well we were really good friends to start off and then we dated and once things ended and we adjusted, we were right back to being best friends.

psychoDiablo 09-22-2014 07:21 PM

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Originally Said by Zanahoria_Picante (Post 382371)
I technically don't have any ex's as I've never technically had a boyfriend.

This fact does not make me sad.

How many girlfriends have you had? lol

Zanahoria_Picante 09-23-2014 01:33 AM

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Originally Said by psychoDiablo (Post 382373)
How many girlfriends have you had? lol

None.

And to answer any of your other questions of this kind: No.

psychoDiablo 09-23-2014 07:36 PM

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lol dork.

What about the boy that you really liked? Treat him as an ex now. You still talk to em?

Zanahoria_Picante 09-24-2014 05:15 AM

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Originally Said by psychoDiablo (Post 382385)
lol dork.

What about the boy that you really liked? Treat him as an ex now. You still talk to em?

I did talk with him for quite a while until he stopped talking to me (please let's not share any more specific details than that :smile:). I have no intention of talking to him again.

I really have no desire to have a relationship like that anymore. At all. I wish I had never wasted my time thinking about having one, even in one instance--as, in reality, every part of me and my personality conflicts with that social situation. This is exemplified by my continual, passionate avoidance of anyone who has attempted to pursue me throughout my life and by my intense aversion to the roles women are meant to play in society and by my disgust at how society (especially men) views and portrays women. All I really feel about the idea of these kind of relationships now is hostility and disgust and a confident realization and acceptance that it is incongruous for me to be in such a relationship. I am 100% content in being single for the rest of my life and in my current circumstances and I say that without reserve or regret. I just wish I would've realized this sooner; that's my only regret.

So... in my sparse, contentious non-relationships, I pretty much avoided those who pursued me with everything I had, which definitely meant I did not talk to them unless I had no choice (in some cases when they would confront me, which was actually almost every time I had an experience like that). This has become my normal reaction to these situations, avoidance, ideally ending with me being left alone. So, I guess it's safe to say, though I have never had a bona fide relationship, all of these situations eventually ended with "no talking."

psychoDiablo 09-24-2014 08:45 PM

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Damn fool. Sorry I even asked... Nah, I'm not sorry...

I can feel you on the whole single for life thing. I think I'll probably be single forever, too, but really... how much life do you have left? You're what, thirty? You could very well live another seventy years! I figure you're bound to meet someone soon. Just count down the days essentially, sort of, but not really. Don't count, 1, 2, 3...5,000 days and nothing yet. Lol don't be a fool.
For me, you always talk about hope n faith n shit. I suppose mines different than yours. I'd like to think I'd meet a nice girl and have a good stint with her. I feel like I've been skipped up. Heh, you think I look good now, you should have seen me when I was younger. And I was single then too. What the fuck?

Ima keep talking, I would like for you to meet some fool who likes you and makes you smile and you make smile for no reason at all. Simply because. I think it would be nice.

I look at some of my friends and no, I do not want their relationship. All they do is yell at each other over stupid shit whenever I'm there. Makes me uncomfortable. But whatever. Most of my shits have ended up in "no talking" as well, and I'm okay with that. Of course, I wish something more could have happened between us. And more meaning, something worth remembering her fucking name. Remember all those poems I had wrote for women over the fucking years...Got me nowhere... But I still keep on writing.

Well thanks for letting me talk n drink right now, lol, i gotta piss

notlob 09-26-2014 02:45 AM

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No matter how bad it ended, I stayed friends with all of my exes, we still talk a lot for the most part.

Nothing wrong with it in my eyes...

EmperorChaos 09-26-2014 10:35 AM

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I don't really consider anyone I've dated as an "ex" either.

I mean, it doesn't count if you date them for a month or less, right?

I usually get dropped as soon as the girl realizes I'm not going to have sexual relations with her.

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Originally Said by Zanahoria_Picante (Post 382371)
I technically don't have any ex's as I've never technically had a boyfriend.

This fact does not make me sad.


ASEXUALS UNITE!

notlob 09-27-2014 01:13 AM

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Originally Said by EmperorChaos (Post 382391)
ASEXUALS UNITE!

Contradiction in terms?

psychoDiablo 09-30-2014 07:47 PM

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Contradiction in terms?

Not if it's online. lol ec is pretty much online. Until he walks outside declaring asexuals unite.

EmperorChaos 10-03-2014 11:01 AM

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Originally Said by notlob (Post 382395)
Contradiction in terms?

"Asexuals Unite!" isn't contradictory, imo.... or wait, does the United Way mean something totally different?

Now, "Asexuals Fornicate!" is off-putting and probably wouldn't happen amongst asexuals.

"Asexuals Conjugate!" wouldn't be appropriate unless you're talking about verbs.

"Asexuals Procreate!" would be acceptable between two asexuals who feel the greater goal of producing offspring, but they could also achieve this through technological means (although it'd be costlier, I suppose) but I don't think that would work in a group setting.

-=-=-=-

I said that to ZP because I think she might be an asexual too. I have only met asexuals online although probability would dictate that I've met other asexuals IRL. We're the other 1%, if you go by some statistics. That means 1 out of 100 people are "Aces". I think the number might even be higher. We live in an oversexualized world. I'm sure many people who don't experience sexual attraction feel pressure, and that pressure leads to sexual activities.

That being said, I haven't gone around looking for asexuals in person. I've only "outed" myself to a handful of people. Close friends and some family. I've shared things on Facebook about asexuality but I've never directly identified myself to the masses like that.

I might finally do that. The last week of October (Oct 26-Nov 1) is Asexual Awareness Week. Last year I shared some stuff. This year I might share something a bit more personal with my Facebook friends and family.

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Originally Said by psychoDiablo (Post 382398)
Not if it's online. lol ec is pretty much online. Until he walks outside declaring asexuals unite.

I hope to one day exist only online.

But that's another matter entirely.

psychoDiablo 10-03-2014 01:55 PM

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But don't we all exist only online?

We would not exist in each other's lives because we haven't met each other.

You could all be nepome5's living at the bottom of the sea.


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