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psychoDiablo 12-03-2016 06:35 PM

Single Moms
 
I'm talking to this girl with a 3 year old son. Don't know if there is a dad around or not.

We stay up talking all night until she falls asleep. Sometimes it feels like she's waiting for me to look at her so that she can smile at me. I cannot tell if she is interested in me or just likes me as a friend. Been talking to her for about a month.

If I were to start dating her what would she expect from me? Any girls have any insight on this?

albee1025 12-05-2016 10:50 PM

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Hey, psycho. Not sure if you remember me. If she's not crazy, she's probably just wanting your company and not looking for too much from you in terms of her kid. It's not like you're serious at this point in time; you're just getting started, so have fun!

psychoDiablo 12-13-2016 01:02 AM

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Hey, thanks albee. Good point. I like your answer. You're right.

sorry, don't really remember you... what was your name again?

Sir Auric 12-24-2016 12:13 PM

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Matt, just roll with the punches. You're a cool cat. She is probably just happy to have someone that's willing to spend that kind of time on her.

Time is the best gift, isn't it?

psychoDiablo 01-26-2017 06:57 AM

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Thanks pal.
I suppose time is... I suppose it gives us answers.

hai Jay 02-24-2017 09:37 PM

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All chicks are different. Maybe ask her?

psychoDiablo 02-28-2017 12:02 AM

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A generic answer. Yet somewhat profound in it's question. "Just ask her?" DUUUUHHHHLLLLOOOOO!!!!

Why are certain things so much more than just that? lol just ask her? i unono haha wtf too true jas. i mean jaws. forgot the w there.

notlob 02-28-2017 09:18 AM

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So... you still seeing her pD?

Also, for those of us who like to use words properly;

Quote:

A generic answer. Yet somewhat profound in it's question. "Just ask her?" DUUUUHHHHLLLLOOOOO!!!!

Why are certain things so much more than just that? lol just ask her? i unono haha wtf too true jas. i mean jaws. forgot the w there.
What?

psychoDiablo 03-03-2017 03:49 AM

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hahaha her name is Jasmine. Jas for short. But I forgot the "w" since her name is Jaws. Short for Jasmine.

Yes I am still seeing her. I dont know, but to be honest, I don't think she trusts me. Like she has a lack of faith in me. I dont know how to take that.

Blood Red 03-26-2017 02:09 PM

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just remember, you dont have to be a replacement dad for the kid, just his friend

hai Jay 03-28-2017 07:36 PM

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Maybe she has trust issues or man issues since her kid is only 3 and she's a single mom?
My best advice is honeslty to just ask her. Or ask her on a date to see if she bites. A generic answer of "ask her" is about as good as it gets because all women are different.
Me for example, wouldn't let a random dude be in my house while I'm asleep. Or wouldn't bring random dudes around my kid period. She trusts you to some extent to be falling asleep in your presence. Some level of comfort there.
Or she could be using you for whatever she's lacking but doesn't want to commit to you. It could go either way dude. Breech the subjects nonchalantly. You don't have to cheesily be like "check yes or no." :biggrin:
Ask her what she's looking for in you guys' friendship. Or if she'd like to go on a date sometime.

psychoDiablo 04-05-2017 02:35 AM

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Wait... It's never occurred to me. But do you chicks, and by that I mean, you people, actually ask each other what you're looking for in a friendship? [/sarcasm] [+sincerity] hahaha sorry that's hilarious

psychoDiablo 04-05-2017 02:42 AM

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Let it be known that I am the first person to coin the phrase, "you people" and it's not offensive anymore.

1337 07-21-2017 10:23 PM

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You still seeing this broad? If so, whenever you enter a room the child is in, exclaim "daddy's home!". The kid is 3, he will be calling you daddy in no time. Next time that mother fuckers deadbeat dad is around and he calls YOU daddy, welp buddy, you've claimed your territory like a dog pissing on a fence and asserted dominace all in one fell swoop. Chicks dig dudes who piss dominance. One thing leads to another, the kid AND his mom call you daddy. Mission fucking accomplished!

psychoDiablo 08-11-2017 01:12 AM

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Quote:

Originally Said by 1337 (Post 383119)
You still seeing this broad? If so, whenever you enter a room the child is in, exclaim "daddy's home!". The kid is 3, he will be calling you daddy in no time. Next time that mother fuckers deadbeat dad is around and he calls YOU daddy, welp buddy, you've claimed your territory like a dog pissing on a fence and asserted dominace all in one fell swoop. Chicks dig dudes who piss dominance. One thing leads to another, the kid AND his mom call you daddy. Mission fucking accomplished!

OMG AM SORRY I DIDNT SEE THIS SOONERRRRRRRRRR!!!!

By far the best.

Nami 09-06-2017 11:36 PM

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... I want to know how that goes for you :laugh:

psychoDiablo 09-16-2017 04:42 AM

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You want toknow...

FUCK HER

Kortenie 10-06-2017 07:37 AM

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Hey Matt!

As someone who is a single mom, she is probably scared shitless if she interested. It's not just herself anymore. If things progress, never forget the kid is first. Let her know that you know that, never make her feel guilty for being too busy, and try to make plans that can include her kid (not all plans, but majority of them).


This is what I have learned as a single mom in the dating world.

Kortenie 10-06-2017 07:38 AM

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Read your latest post, what happened?

psychoDiablo 11-19-2017 11:17 PM

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Not sure what post you are referring too.


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